Parenting and Family: Practical Ways to Be More Resilient at Home
- Myrto Levidi
- 28 Αυγ
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The family is the first and most important context of development. It is there that children learn how to relate, express themselves and deal with the difficulties of life. Parents, for their part, are called upon to balance between roles: caregivers, guides, role models and at the same time people with their own needs. Parenthood is not an easy task; but it is a journey where small daily actions can make a huge difference.
The importance of resilience
Resilience means the ability to adapt, to endure difficulties and to find balance again. It does not mean the absence of problems, but the strength to face them. When the family cultivates resilience, children learn to trust themselves and others, to see difficulties as opportunities and to maintain hope.
Five practical ways to strengthen family resilience
1. Establish screen-free time
Screens are inevitable in everyday life, but a few minutes without them bring huge benefits. A meal at the table without phones or a half hour before bed dedicated to conversation or play creates bonds and a sense of closeness.
2. Set clear boundaries consistently
Children need boundaries to feel safe. When rules are clear and consistently enforced, the child understands stability. Important: explain the “why” behind each rule. This way, the child doesn’t just obey out of fear, but learns the value of responsibility.
3. Give space to emotions
Children need to express anger, sadness, or fear without feeling like they’re “bothering.” Ask, “How are you feeling right now?” and listen carefully. Accepting emotions builds resilience because it teaches that it’s okay to feel, but also that you can find ways to manage what you’re feeling.
4. Be an example
Children imitate what they see more than what they hear. If you face a difficulty with composure, you show that it is possible to manage stress without panic. If you acknowledge your mistakes, you show that failure is part of learning.
5. Take care of yourself
Self-care is not a luxury, but a prerequisite for being able to give. Sleep, proper nutrition, moments of relaxation and personal time make the parent more present and supportive. A child who sees the parent taking care of themselves learns that their own well-being has value.
Small ideas that make a difference
Family calendar : everyone notes their activities so there is visibility and shared planning.
Evening gratitude routine : before bed, each member shares one thing they felt grateful for during the day.
Quiet corner : create a small space in the home where each member can isolate themselves when they need time to calm down.
Final thoughts
Parenting and family do not require perfection. They require truth, consistency, and a willingness to learn. Every difficulty can be turned into an opportunity for connection, and every moment can become a bridge to greater resilience. The important thing is not to avoid all problems, but to build an environment where everyone feels they can get back on their feet after them.